In the College and Career bible study, as part of the awesome Metamorphosis night, we're doing a sweet John Piper video series entitled 'The Blazing Center: The Soul-Satisfying Supremacy of God in All Things.
We just finished the second session where Piper tackles the question: Is God Vain? More pointedly: How can a God who is passionately pursuing his own glory be loving? And secondly, why would anyone want to worship a God so into himself?
In John 11 we see that God's pursuit of his own glory, and his love for us go hand in hand. It says in this passage that Jesus loved Lazarus, Mary and Martha so he stayed two more days and let Lazarus die. Now, does that make sense? If Jesus loved Lazarus, why wouldn't he rush to his side right away? Well, it was more loving to show them God's glory than to keep Lazarus alive. God knows that that which will satisfy our souls most deeply is Himself in all His glory. He knows that he is the most valuable and satisfying reality in the entire universe. He knows that during moments of adoration and self forgetfulness we are at our most joyous, and that when we are lost in admiration of Him, lost in worship of Him we are most satisfied.
God's love doesn't make much of us, as we often do to our objects of love, rather he frees us, at the price of His son's life, to enjoy making much of Him. Think of it this way; God's best expression of love is himself - there is nothing greater in the universe. If he were to hide himself from us, that would mean he hated us. But he doesn't do that! Out of love for us, he fully shows Himself in all His glory. Again, he is the most valuable and satifsying reality in the entire universe. We were not made for mirrors, we were made for standing in front of what is infinitely beautiful - namely God. In pursuing the display and exaltation of His own glory, He is pursuing the very thing that will make us most happy - himself!
Given this we should be doing whatever we can to show people that which will satisfy them forever - God. If this isn't our life's goal, then we're not very loving people!